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Mother’s Day

May 9, 2021

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Let me start off by saying HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY to all of the mothers and mother figures out there!

Writing this post was a big struggle. Deciding to post it was, and still is, a bigger struggle. All because I hate to share certain parts of my life. But, this year has been all about change and growth for me, so here it goes…

As a  motherless child, I used to hate celebrating holidays. I’d be secretly miserable whenever holidays came around. Mother’s day always hit the hardest. You would think that because I was so young when my mother passed, (almost 3), it would be easier as I got older, but that was far from the case. It actually got worse once I realized what I was missing out on.

I’ll skip a whole lot since I refuse to share too much, but, since becoming a mother, I’ve gotten better at trying to enjoy celebrations with my family, otherwise, it would just be unfair to my kids and my husband. I’m a great mom and I deserve to be celebrated, so, I’ll let them celebrate me and I’ll continue to work on not being miserable because of what I don’t have and be happy and thankful for what I do have. 

Comments (6)

  • May 9, 2021 by Sharon

    Sharon

    You are a great mom💗

    • May 9, 2021 by Itsmepat

      Itsmepat

      I learned from the best! 💖😁

  • May 9, 2021 by Wesley

    Wesley

    You’re a great mom & wife. Words can’t describe how blessed I am to be with someone as special as you!

    • May 9, 2021 by Itsmepat

      Itsmepat

      This means a lot to me! 💖

    • May 9, 2021 by Diandra

      Diandra

      Thank you so much for this post. It was so relatable to me since I lost my mom at 12 years old. I appreciate the motivation and inspiration. You are an amazing mom. Happy Mother’s Day!!

      • May 10, 2021 by Itsmepat

        Itsmepat

        Thank you so much! I really appreciate this and Happy Mother’s Day to you too!

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